Account Security

Staying Safe in Direct Messages (DMs)

Updated: May 31, 2026

Private Conversations, User-Controlled

Direct Messages (DMs) on Qerios are designed to provide a secure space for private interaction. We believe that your private inbox should be exactly that—yours. Whether you are catching up with friends or discussing shared interests, we provide the tools to ensure your privacy is respected and your interactions are safe.

Our Commitment: We prioritize your comfort by ensuring that you have full control over who can initiate a conversation with you. You never have to worry about unwanted messages cluttering your inbox.

The Chat Request System

To prevent spam and unwanted contact, Qerios utilizes a strict chat request system.

  • The Workflow: When a user initiates a conversation, it starts as a "PENDING" request.
  • Your Choice: You have the authority to "ACCEPT" or "DECLINE" any incoming request.
  • Privacy: Until you accept a request, the other user cannot send you further messages. Once accepted, you can both engage in a private, encrypted-session conversation.

Features for Secure Communication

We have built our DM system with both functionality and security in mind:

  • Real-time Interaction: Conversations are powered by Ably WebSockets, ensuring seamless, real-time communication.
  • Conversation Tools: Within a conversation, you can utilize message editing and soft-deletion if you make a mistake or change your mind about what you have sent.
  • Convenience: We support read receipts to keep you informed, as well as a reply-to feature within conversations to keep threads organized.
  • Content Sharing: You can securely share sketches, music cards, and public answers within your DMs.

Best Practices for DM Safety

  • Be Selective: Only accept chat requests from people you know or trust.
  • Report Violations: If a user sends harmful or inappropriate content after you have accepted their request, please use the reporting system immediately.
  • Block & Mute: You can block or mute users at any time. Blocking is a mutual action that prevents further interaction.
  • Protect Personal Info: Even in private conversations, be mindful about sharing sensitive information like phone numbers or addresses.

Need More Help?

If you are having trouble with a specific conversation or feel unsafe, please contact our support team at [email protected]. Your safety is our top priority.

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